tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24519117.post270937334414443355..comments2023-10-21T01:24:34.902+10:00Comments on Fly My Pretty: D'ohStegetroniumhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15881823966680751798noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24519117.post-70673992481230315092007-03-23T19:36:00.000+10:002007-03-23T19:36:00.000+10:00Just read the blogs. Couldn't believe after tellin...Just read the blogs. Couldn't believe after telling you how much I missed your regular blogging I didn't read them!<BR/>Damn it, know what you mean. I didn't think that it was horrible at all. I love the way your blog has , at times painful, honest emotion. It is one of the things I like about it. It helps me feel conected to you from far away. Keep it up girl!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24519117.post-18692793703085581332007-03-20T10:18:00.000+10:002007-03-20T10:18:00.000+10:00I appreciate your very supportive comments, thank ...I appreciate your very supportive comments, thank you. I think, Elsewhere, you are right - I know I do far too much worrying about what people think, and what I am *supposed* to think. It's good to hear your warnings about the changing tone of blogs too. Having a small backwater blog is good although I need to keep in mind whether I'll be happy with people stumbling across it when I'm a bigwig producer!<BR/><BR/>By the way Anonymous, it is ALWAYS a joy when someone sticks their head up and says 'hi'. And I felt much more peaceful having someone acknowledge my feelings as normal.Stegetroniumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15881823966680751798noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24519117.post-68035001914271961772007-03-20T09:59:00.000+10:002007-03-20T09:59:00.000+10:00I just thought 'well, I don't blame you for feelin...I just thought 'well, I don't blame you for feeling a bit deflated'. Not even a fleeting image of you as eugenicist.<BR/><BR/>And re tone of blogs - blogging is weird. And, like elsewhere, I'm pretty sure the tone of mine has changed (and is currently changing).<BR/><BR/>But I like it here.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24519117.post-7800566608433187422007-03-19T10:31:00.000+10:002007-03-19T10:31:00.000+10:00When I went to read your last post, I expected som...When I went to read your last post, I expected something mcuh worse...not sure what you're worrying about, it's not that bad! I think we value your honest voice anyway. And I think we women worry too much about other people's opinions.<BR/><BR/>Yes, hard to know what tone to strike with blog posts often. I think my posts have become more cautious and less honest as my audience has grown.<BR/><BR/>Good luck with film school -- how exciting! RE: those blondes -- I had the same thoughts in Sydney. Also all those women going to work with bare tanned legs -- where do they come from?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24519117.post-28588885761979475852007-03-19T08:35:00.000+10:002007-03-19T08:35:00.000+10:00Speaking of the etiquette of blogs, I never know w...Speaking of the etiquette of blogs, I never know whether it's less polite to comment on the blog of someone I don't know, or to read someone's blog every now and then without ever saying hello! But in this case I feel obliged to comment.<BR/><BR/>I don't think your post was horrible at all. I think those feelings are perfectly normal and the fact that you feel bad about them shows you are a sensitive, well adjusted person who just happens to be human.<BR/><BR/>Infertility is incredibly difficult and it's hard enough to deal with a friend or relative who has succeeded quickly even when they desperately want the baby and will be great parents. When it's an accident and they're ambivalent it's heart wrenching. I am sure that when the baby is born you will love him or her as a person separate from how he or she came to be, and then it won't be so tough on you. In the mean time I wish you peace and strength.<BR/><BR/>JBAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com